Newcastle residents unsure on how to start conversations with loved ones about death and dying can benefit from a free informative webinar on April 27.

Newcastle Compassionate Community advocate, end of life educator and doula, Ruth Boydell.

In a partnership project with Northern Cemeteries and Newcastle Compassionate Community, Rest Assured public webinar series provides support and education to the community on death-related matters.

April’s webinar theme will focus on starting meaningful conversations around death and dying, aptly named, Dying to talk – what matters most, and will be hosted from 5 pm on April 27.

Leading the conversation is Newcastle Compassionate Community advocate, end of life educator and doula, Ruth Boydell.

Boydell said it was important now more than ever to understand how to support each other in planning for “a good death”.

“No one wants to be confronted with difficult issues and questions,” Boydell said.

“We need to learn how to have gentle conversations, not challenging confrontations.

“A good place to begin is by thinking about who should be involved in these types of discussions and understanding the best ways to start them.”

The free webinar will include how to start the conversation, topics to discuss, who should be involved, care plans, legal documentation, burial and memorial service options and where to find helpful end-of-life support resources.

“Often, family and close friends can offer the caring advice and guidance needed to help people make important decisions,” Boydell said.

“It’s not just about talking to someone when they are close to dying; it’s about encouraging these conversations well ahead of time.

“So people can think clearly about what they really want in terms of support and burial wishes.”

The Australian Bureau of Statistics forecasts that by 2051 nearly one-quarter of the population will be 65 years or older, and around five per cent will be 85 years or older.

Additionally, population projections for Australia suggest there will be four million people aged between 65 and 84 years by the end of 2022, with the rapid acceleration of some age groups in the next ten years.

“While conversations about end-of-life issues may be very uncomfortable, we need to realise how important they can be to so many people,” Boydell said.

“We can all learn how to play a valuable role in assisting others when they may need it the most.”

Webinar registrations are essential and can be made on Eventbrite at Rest Assured, April 27 2022: Dying to Talk – what matters most or email friends@nmclm.com.au.

Hayley McMahon